Sunday, February 8, 2009

The 2009 Grammys

WOW!!! The Grammys never disappoint me! The collaborations and the MUSIC! OMG!!! Sooo many performances that were AMAZING! Radiohead rocked! I love "American Boy" by Kanye and Estelle! TI and JT, Sir Paul and Dave Grohl, Chris Martin and Jay-Z....oh my, each a legend in their own right! I have to say Taylor and Miley's "Fifteen" was REALLY good! Jennifer even brought me to tears! Adele, Smokie, Ne-Yo, Jamie, Sugarland, Kenny, Katy, Carrie, Boyz II Men, Al Green, Keith, and Stevie Wonder ya'll! Swagga Like Us killed it and MIA is about to pop! Loved the blues tribute to Bo Diddley by BB, Buddy Guy, John Mayer, Keith Urban. The "doing this for New Orleans" performance with Lil Wayne and Robin Thick and the band had me dancing...'Put your hands up for New Orleans". Robert Plant and Alison Krauss...I have this album...two destinct voices that are made to sing together...Gone, Gone, Gone. U2...I WILL PUT MY BOOTS ON!!! Kid Rock...AMEN!!!!! And to top it off...BLINK 182 IS BACK TOGETHER!!!!!!!!

I HATE to say this but did anyone see the "Other Cola's" commercial "Forever Young" with Bob Dylan and Will.I.Am? LOVE it except for the last few seconds which showed the "Other Cola's" logo.

Side note...Neal Diamond was one of the first concerts I ever went to with my mom. I must have been 7 or 8. He still rocks, OK maybe I should say sways...heehee!!!! SWEET CAROLINE, BAH, BAH, BAH, GOOD TIMES NEVER SEEM SO GOOD!!!!

I'm so thankful that my mom, dad, Mama Chris, Daddy Bob, and all my friends have supported and nourished my love of ALL MUSIC!!! "ALL ABOUT THE LOVE AGAIN"!!!!!!!

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Mama Chris

Just some things about my grandmother, Christine Smith Stembridge. She was born on February 4, 1920 and passed away January 31, 2009. She was the 7th child of 8 living on a farm in Rockledge, GA. She went to Berry when it was a finishing high school (I have her high school ring). She had a contagious smile and a great sense of humor. She was a nurse and met my grandfather when stationed with a clinic in Ellijay, GA. She married my grandfather around midnight. When my grandfather moved the family to Atlanta she went to school for accounting and then got a job with Coca-Cola. When she was given the news that she was going to be a grandmother she said she was "too young" to be called granny which is why we called her Mama Chris.

Mama Chris blessed my life with more love and encouragement than any grandmother could give. She showed me how to live...laughing, loving, and sharing all that she had. She taught me my first phrase "Eeewww, Laa-Laa!" She taught me to giggle and was always making faces at me to make me laugh. She taught me to sing "Jesus loves me" and meant it. She taught me that family matters most and even though our immediate family was small with mom being an only child that we had a large support group including all 7 of her brothers and sisters and their families. She encouraged me to do whatever I wanted to do and she would be right there routing for me. If she had a dollar she would give 10% to the church and then help others in need. She was not only my grandmother she was one of my best friends!

Some of my most precious memories are of her teaching me that it was all about having style. She sported the most beautiful hair with finger curls which always amazed me and my ringlets. Of course I paid tribute to her one night in our Riverdale house when I was about 5 by pulling on her "granny panties" and her hair net and posing for the camera. I tried to put the bobbie pins in my hair too but couldn't figure out how they opened. I'll have to find that pic and post it...goodness I was fashionable!

Our Saturday routine growing up was to meet Mama Chris at the mall. We shopped everywhere. When we were real young we shopped at Greenbriar. She would take us to Rich's, then treat us for lunch at the Orange Julius and sit out to watch the birds in big cages that looked like trees. On special occasions she would take us to Rich's downtown to shop and eat at the Rich's Tea Room. When Southlake opened that was where you could find us on any given Saturday. We would shop at Rich's and then go to El Chico's for lunch...which I now realize that mom and Mama Chris loved El Chico's for their margaritas. :) If we did not meet on Saturday then on Sunday we would meet Mama Chris and Daddy Bob (he was also too young for granddaddy) for lunch at ChiChi's usually with some mall action following. And you guys wondered where I get my shopping habits from and why I worked at Rich's during college...hummmm.

She told us jokes and made us laugh all the time. We made faces at each other until the very end. Right before she went into hospice care when she was still in the hospital she told me that she loved me and then stuck her tongue out at me which made me laugh. My last time seeing her in the hospice I was talking with her and told her that I knew she couldn't talk to me but that she should just wink at me. She shut her eyes a couple of times slowly then wrinkled up her nose and squeezed her eyes real tight. That was her wink to me and I will treasure it ALWAYS.

I KNOW SHE LOVED ME BUT I WILL MISS HER!!! Again, my heart is heavy but I KNOW that she is up singing with the angels. She is sitting with her sisters and brothers and Mama and Papa Smith giving them all updates on all our family. I know she is finally at rest and that I will see her again one day.

Happy Birthday Mama Chris!